I think today is my birthday.
actually taking the date as something symbolic. My ID card says he was born on May 17 in Buenos Aires City
But my ID is a lie. When I was born I was placed with a couple who opted for the faster option: to score as their own daughter. The midwife gave a birth certificate signed and sealed properly, saying it was his daughter, the details of delivery and so were the Civil Registry and I scored. It was easy just had to keep the secret for 15 years, until the suppression of crime and identity status lapse.
But they were difficult years because since I have reason suspected, asked and all those hidden got sick. Learning disabilities, behavioral, not socializing. He had inside information, genetic truth but could not decipher. Being a parent at any cost.
This of ownership still occurs, choose the fastest route and never think about the consequences. Because we say that a human is born, a baby.
There is much talk surrogacy, fertilization by donor laboratories, all designed from the perspective of the adult who wants to be a parent at all costs. What will happen when the baby grows and ask about its origin? Who is like, why or does not like certain things because during pregnancy the baby food in addition to receiving information.
only managed to find out that my biological mother is Polish or Russian (I studied the language without knowing it), I was born in La Plata and not in the Federal Capital, the year could be 1961 or 1963. From my father I know nothing.
is difficult to live in such uncertainty and feeling that one was treated as an object that is acquired at home are stressed. Supposedly my birthday today and do not know for sure how many. I am not alone and this continues to happen.
My hope is that humanize us, we do things right. That can not be parents at all costs adopting a child can not be bought, not made it at home, who loves and accepts them as is. That parenting is an act of love and not a genetic manipulation or commercial transaction. Let us be aware.
Palma Graciela (citizens without identity) DNI (with false) 16,496,527
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